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carpediem409 Profile Information

Looking for my partner in crime
Age 53 From Saint Cloud, Minnesota - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I'm a professional in my own career. I spent most of my career working as a Paralegal but now have switched gears to something else still within a professional realm. However, I still like to get out every once in a while, let my hair down and enjoy life. I am a free spirit. I love things like rock concerts, motorcycle rallies, etc. I like to go out and have fun but in the same breath I also love doing things like taking long drives, fishing, boating, swimming, spending time with my kids, or just sitting on my deck and watching the sun go down. I don't watch much TV if any at all. I just don't have time for it. I don't even remember the last time I watched a movie for that matter. There's so much more out there to do in life than to waste it in front of a TV screen.

I consider myself to be very honest and upfront, good-hearted, easy going and I love to laugh. It's healthy and good for the soul. I believe life is too short to dwell on past negatives. I try to follow my guides on my path of learning through this life. I'm pretty liberal and very open minded about things in general. I'm not a religious person at all and have pretty much thrown down the societiel views regarding organized religion in general and have learned to think for myself.
Sign  
Capricorn

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Hair
Body Art  
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is  
Auburn / Red
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
I Live  
With Kid(s)
I'm A Smoker  
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Every Day
My Goal In Life Is  
I have two boys who are not teenagers yet (gawd help me). I'm committed to being the best mother I can possibly be. I'm extremely independent and I'm not looking for anything SO serious at this point but certainly not opposed if something just happened to come along and all the cards fell into place. It's just not my main focus is all. It would be nice to just have somebody who I can spend time with and enjoy their company. Honestly, just coming out of a marriage, I find it hard see really why I would want to do something like that again. Life is just so much simplier to love and be loved without a piece of paper showing some form of ownership.

Taste

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock
When I Read, I Always Read  
Ancient
My Idea Of Fun Is  
I am a very adventurous person. I am almost willing to do anything once (provided I don't think it is going to kill me). I currently ride my own motorcycle. I love the freedom of hitting the road and getting lost...not even knowing where you are going but not caring...and feeling the wind in your hair and roar of the engine and taking in all the sights and smells around you.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
I neeed somebody who likes to laugh and is positive-minded and doesn't take everything so seriously. If your main concern is not looking to settle down and get married, not move in with somebody, but would rather just have a GREAT friend who could be a great partner. Friends in which we can trust each other, be able to be honest with each other without fear of being judged, and respect for each other.



Life is busy these days and I don't have gobs of free time, so I believe it is important for my match to be happy, or at least content with current life. I guess that's my way of saying I hope that he's on the same wavelength and has not grown desperate in his search for love. I would prefer someone who is honest and upfront and who wants/needs a friend, just as much as he needs a lover. I would like to find somebody who is hopefully comfortable with himself, his decisions, and his general direction in life.
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